A friend asked me for whom I was voting. I told her my vote was as private as the color of her underwear – no, not really, but that’s what I later thought of having said. Upon reflection, I will tell you what I’m not voting for.
I’m not voting for a felon to become President of the United
States, an office I respect and honor, one whose occupant I was raised to
look up to. As I grew older, I came to see the occupants as humans flawed in
their ways, but still deserving respect as exemplars of public service, earning respect for
shouldering the awesome responsibility of the worst job in the world. I believe,
moreover, in the rule of law and cannot countenance a felon in that role.
I’m not voting for a person who objectifies people, as
in viewing casualties of war as “suckers”; as in labelling heroes “losers”; as in objecting
to the funeral expenses of a murdered US servicewoman, “a fucking Mexican”; as
in saying of beautiful women that “When you’re a star . . . you can do anything.
You can grab them by the pussy. You can do anything.” As in calling immigrants who have the courage to leave
home and struggle to come to America “vermin.”
I’m not voting for a person who admires flagrant autocrats
such as Vladimir Putin, Viktor Orban, Kim Jong Un, and Xi Jinping, all of whom
are openly hostile to our democratic ideals and to our role in the world.
I’m not voting for a person who views Roy Cohn as a role
model; yes, that Roy Cohn: hypocrite, amoral, manipulative, self-absorbed.
I’m not voting for a person who fails to win the respect
and allegiance of his staff, people who filled key positions of trust and
accountability and who now testify to that person’s lack of trustworthiness and
leadership capability.
I’m not voting for a person who is a serial liar, who
tells the big lie over and over, as in who won the 2020 election, and little ones
again and again, as in whose inaugural crowd was larger, his or his predecessor’s.
I’m not voting for a radical willing to throw over the systems
and institutions that have served us rather than, as true conservatives do,
work to improve them increment by increment.
. . .
And I suggest you don’t either.